Based on the data of questionnaire survey made in Xiamen,the factor analysis shows that the gender consciousness includes four dimensions:traditional attitudes, repressive attitudes, inclining attitudes and developing attitudes. The regression analysis illustrates that there is significant difference between male and female in the repressive attitudes and inclining attitudes towards women.Some factors such as age,years of education,personal income and marriage,etc., will influence diferent respects of gender consciousness to diferent degrees. To construct harmonious relationship between genders should not only rely on enhancing the education of culture and gender consciousness, making the male recognize an d confirm female value more while unleashing female subjective consciousness,but also rely on improving the legal and policies.